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“You’re beautiful in all your ways” is a variation of a Bible quote from Song of Songs 4:7. The original quote goes, “You are altogether beautiful, my darling, beautiful in every way.” As women, we often spend so much time working on the outward appearance that we forget to look for our inner beauty. In this article, I’ll explain what inner beauty is and the steps you can take to find it.

How Can You Feel Beautiful in All Your Way?

Inner beauty refers to a person’s personality, including their mind and character. Outer beauty only refers to a person’s looks – these can easily be faked or changed with makeup, dressing, or surgery. But it takes much effort and a true heart to maintain your inner beauty in today’s world.

If you want to get into jobs for attractive females, looking good is certainly important, but a good personality is also important. Even though job interviewers will notice your looks first, they’ll place less importance on those if you have a good personality. So, what can you do to find your inner beauty? Here are some tips:

1. Find Your Path

Figuring out what you want to do with your life is one of the best ways to invest in yourself as woman. If  you’re not sure how to find your path, start by thinking about the great things you’ve already done with your life, then consider what interests you. Is there some way you could use both to create a better life for yourself and those you love? For example, if you like to write and you’ve worked in technical fields before, maybe you could be a technical writer.

Finding a path you truly love will bring new life to your personality and help you find your inner beauty.

2. Be Proud of the Great Things You’ve Achieved

Take some time to list the things you’ve achieved already in your life. Even if you’ve only graduated from high school and college, that’s something. Don’t compare the days of your life to other people’s. Instead, focus on your journey to not only become a better woman but also a better person.

Keep a list of your accomplishments and refer to them often. When you feel down, remembering the things you’ve overcome can help pick you up.

Whether you take small steps, big steps, a long stride, or a quick sprint, know that your efforts matter and be proud of what you’ve accomplished.

3. Celebrate Your Inner Self

Don’t wait for a special occasion to celebrate yourself – celebrate yourself every day with these simple ideas:

Release your inner child – Most adults take life too seriously. To carry all those adult responsibilities, we’ve got to relax occasionally. Here are a few ideas to unleash the child in you:

  • Turn up the music
  • Bring a little bounce to your step
  • Laugh out loud
  • Let your creativity take flight

Take some time for yourself – Women have a lot of responsibilities. Occasionally we have to take a break. Here are a few ideas for that:

  • Relax by taking a nap
  • Spend some time reading a book you love
  • Enjoy a Netflix binge
  • Try a new dessert

Get yourself flowers – Why should you wait until you have a date or an anniversary to get flowers? Order flowers for yourself if no one sends them to you. It’s a good way to show yourself some love and support a neighborhood business simultaneously.

Treat yourself – You could combine this one with one of the other ideas above. Here are some ideas for ways to treat yourself:

  • Go out for ice cream or cake
  • Make dinner easy by ordering takeout and having it delivered instead of going out
  • Give yourself a mental health day – use it to read a book or binge-watch Netflix, or both
  • Plan a date for yourself – order yourself flowers afterward
  • Plan a staycation

List all the things you love about yourself – On a piece of paper, write down as many things you love about yourself as you can, mental, physical, and emotionally. Here are some ideas to get started:

  • How would you describe yourself as a friend?
  • Is there a physical trait that you like the most?
  • What do you think you are good at?
  • Why do people love you?
  • Which accomplishment are you most proud of so far?

4. Add Something to Your Daily Routine That Brings You Joy

If music is your thing, turn it up as you clean the kitchen or prepare dinner. If you enjoy spending time outdoors, take a daily walk. Adding something you enjoy to your routine will increase your happiness as well as:

  • Boost motivation
  • Take care of your mental health
  • Make you more productive
  • Refresh your perspective
  • Give you more energy
  • Improve your relationships

5. Create a Playlist Called “Love Yourself”

Make a playlist of songs that make you happy all the time. Dopamine is released in the brain when we listen to music. Besides listening to music, this happy chemical is released when we anticipate it. Kind of like we’re being rewarded for anticipating an awesome chorus.

6. Don’t Let Stereotypes Limit Your Potential

No woman wants to hear, “You can’t do that because you’re a woman.” In 2022, most stereotypes don’t exist anymore, but some people still cling to them. If you’re a determined woman and you want to get into something a female wouldn’t normally get into, first think about if you’ll be safe doing it, and if you will give it a try. People can learn from your example. 

You’re Beautiful in All Your Ways

Those are just a few ways you can find your inner beauty. These tips provide a firm foundation that will  help you find your inner beauty. As you find it, people will naturally be drawn to you, no matter what your outer appearance looks like.

November 18, 2022

Why You’re Beautiful in All Your Ways

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